Friday, August 21, 2015

Tips for Parents to Prevent Teen Sex Addiction

Sexual promiscuity has become a norm in our modern society. It is blamed on a number of factors - the hyper sexual material in our media, the easy access to pornographic material and natural sexual curiosity. Maybe just one of these or the combination of all of them is turning teens into sex addicts. Teenagers between the age of 12 and 17 are the largest consumers of pornography on-line. This age group is also the largest viewers of television programs and films with sexual themes.
Teen sex addiction can not only have adverse effects on their lives but it can also have an unpleasant impact on the lives of the people around them, their friends and family. The parents of teen sex addicts especially feel the complete impact of their children's behavior.
Most parents feel that they have a measure of responsibility in this shameful addiction. Parents don't know how to react when they learn about this addiction in their kids. Some parents try to ignore it and are tolerant. Some parents react more harshly and hand down punishments to their kids. Both of these approaches are not ideal, it is more prudent that you seek the help of sex addiction counselor to give your child the support and help he/she needs.
Cause
After seeking the help of a therapist, parents can find the pertinent information they will need to get their kids through and beat this addiction. The parents who blame themselves for playing a role in enabling this addiction can learn that they did not cause this addiction. But they can help in their child's recovery by focusing on their family.
Control
Parents should know that they cannot control this addiction on their own. No matter what punishments or restrictions you place on your teens, you will not be able to control them. They are addicts and they will try to find a fix wherever they can.
Cure
Some parents try to handle the situation on their own by being strict. They think that they can cure the addiction by confining their kids to their rooms. But this will only agitate the teens even more. Sex addiction cure naturally is a long process and it should be done with the help of a counsellor.
When you learn about this addiction in your kids, have an open discussion about it. Don't try to ignore it and don't react with extreme measures. Seek the help of a therapist or en-roll the teens into a program that can help them overcome their addiction.
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Tuesday, July 21, 2015

The Reason Why Teens Can Die Having Fun - Teen Sex

Why so much fuss over teen sex, is it not natural for a boy and girl to be curious about "how" their undisclosed body parts function and put to them to use, the answer is yes, it is perfectly normal, however as stated earlier I refer to boys and girls, probing the sexual organs of the opposite sex should be sanctioned by man and woman only, meaning, they are wiser about puberty and conscious of what can happen if the goods are damaged so as to speak in the way of an unwanted pregnancy or contracting a sexually transmitted disease. Mind you not all adults are as responsible as they should be and they too have to suffer the consequences of having unprotected sex.

Boys and girls enjoy your childhood as nature intended, life is too short to throw it all away through a mistake that could have been prevented. The number for those who indulge in teen sex in today`s society is on the increase and so are the amount of baby deliveries in a labour ward, is this what you really want, a baby who demands your every second of the day or the dolly in the pram who craves no attention till you say so. As for the boys before you next dip your wick take control and use a condom, not every premature dad is a happy one; Choosing to ignore sensible advice and the worst happens and you have made up your mind not to be involved with the baby`s upbringing then fine, but I am not to sure others will see it that way (child support)

Teen sex has its negatives, meaning, having sex with someone who at the time you believed was the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with but when a missed period is mentioned that someone is now not seen as the ideal husband wife material, its funny how the height of passion can distort the way a person thinks.

By saving your self for the right person will make your sexual encounters more meaningful than that of a one night stand. Girls if you indulge in multiple teen sex engagements then labelled as a tart you will be, is this what you want, and how do you explain this to the man that you know is the one for you. Although boys sleep around they seem to get of the hook without any name calling, however jealousy can prevail within the future wife`s thoughts, life can be miserable with mistrust 24 hours a day..

Safe sex means use condoms, sometimes called a rubber, Johnny or French letter. Most STDs can be avoided to some extent by practicing safe sex. Information on Chlamydia, Syphilis, HIV and AIDS, Gonorrhoea is freely given by your doctor or found in leaflets from your local clinic/ hospital.
Syphilis is caused by a bacterium which can be passed on through open sores. If there is no outward sign, the bacteria may not get passed on. Diseases are treatable and curable, the earlier a condition is detected betters the odds in the healing process. Syphilis has phases - primary, secondary and latent. Death has occurred in the latent stage.

Syphilis develops in three parts. First part is painless sores formed on the genitals or mouth. The second are faint signs of a red rash on hand palms, feet soles and other body parts.You can feel feverish. It is not unusual for red patches in mucous membranes to be seen. Any changes in your well being should be checked over by a doctor. The latent stage will have seen the disease grown over a period of time (years) This is not a nice stage because the bacteria attacks vital body organs, if the organs are severely affected then so is your health.

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

Teen Sex Awareness Teaching Sex in School

Did your heart just start beating faster? Even the term "sex" or "family life education" brings panic, fear, and increases the heartbeat and sweat glands in most adults. However, once the panic subsides, the debate over whether to have sex education in American schools or not - is done. A new poll finds that over 90% of Americans say sex education should be taught in schools. According to the poll, the surveyed parents supported teaching 7th and 8th graders basic information on how babies are made, and 56 percent supported teaching all aspects of sex education, including birth control and safer sex in 7th and 8th grade, with a much higher percentage agreeing it should be taught in High School.

On the other hand, exactly who IS getting taught about sex? Unfortunately, the nationwide trend is that fewer young people are learning how to reduce the risk of getting a disease and preventing pregnancy. "The majority of school systems now focus on delaying sexual education as long as possible," said Barbara Huberman, the director of education for Advocates for Youth, a pro-education group in Washington, D.C. "While you may get an overview of contraception in the seventh or eighth grade, there are many, many school systems that are afraid to talk about it at all." It is in your best interest to speak with your parents of your intentions. Parents are the two most honest people in your life that will give sound advice. There may not be happy with your teen sex exploits, nonetheless they will be there for you, if you go against their better judgment. If you have only just met your partner, trust will not have matured yet, so wait. Sex can leave you feeling vulnerable, is this - what you want, a partner who has their wicked way with you and disappears into the night? Good sex happens with someone you love and trust, are content with, and who you can talk to openly about your feelings.

I am a School Nurse at a Middle School in a suburb of a large city. They teach about "abstinence" in a brief session. Then, on a daily basis, I get to deal with the student's choices and mistakes. I hear stories that make me want to cry. I hear parents frequently say, "my daughter/son would never do that", or "I don't think (insert child's name here) would ever have sex". The all seem horrified at the thought. But, what I see and hear on consistently (and remember, this is middle school) tells a different story. Just so you don't think my school is unusual, I read articles and stories from nurses all over the country that say the same thing.

I have girls coming to me fearing pregnancy (and some really are pregnant). Some of these same girls have had multiple partners (yes, they are only 12-14 years old and yes, some are a mandatory CPS/Law Enforcement call). Amazingly, these same girls will say statements like, "I know that you can get pregnant through oral sex, but I try to be careful". They ARE too young to be having sex, but it is happening - and not infrequently. We may have grown up in a different time, and want to believe it can't happen in our own home, but let me give you some hard statistics:

The average girl today begins to develop some characteristics of puberty between ages 10 and 11, with many showing some changes at ages eight or nine. One in 12 students experience their first sexual intercourse before age 13, and a quarter of all children (24 percent of girls and 27 percent of boys) have had sex by age 15, and many believe these estimates to be low. Remember, these numbers do not include the "everything but intercourse" in them. Each year, one in four sexually active teens contracts a sexually transmitted disease. Genital herpes (which cannot be cured) has increased by almost 30% in young people in the last 9 years. There are over 900,000 teen pregnancies per year. When it comes to HIV, the largest increase in cases is seen in teenagers. These statistics are frightening.

Ideally, parents should give strong teaching to their kids about honesty, integrity, self-value, and abstinence for the first 10 to 12 years of life. If they did a really good job of this, and taught their children to make good decisions, we wouldn't be having this epidemic and being forced to have as many conversations with 14, 15 and 16 years old about what to do about an unplanned pregnancy or a STD. Which leads to why this should be taught in the school - parents would be the ideal choice to teach this to children. That would be assuming you have parents who are willing to do so. But, a majority of parents don't know how to talk to their kids about sex and sexually transmitted diseases. The other part of that equation is that many families today are very dysfunctional - some parents abuse alcohol, drugs, work too many hours, have high stress or anxiety, or have various other reasons for not having the ability to talk with their children. That leaves the "job" of teaching kids about sex and STD's to the educational system. Although this is an uncomfortable subject, it IS an important one. I am a strong believer in abstinence. If it were up to me, everyone would abstain until marriage. However, I am a realist as well. We cannot bury our heads in the sand and hope teen sex goes away. Teens are "doing it", getting pregnant, and catching diseases. They need education and support and we need to guide them. It is our job as educators and adults to keep them safe. Please start early talking to your kids and have a good relationship with them about everything.

Friday, May 22, 2015

Teen Sex is all about Love?

America is for them the accomplished amount of pregnancies amid teens. Because the adolescent bodies of their sex - abundance appraisal of the amount to the United States is about 7 billion U.S. dollars per year. Mothers, boyish girls are beneath acceptable assuredly training. The abstracts appearance that eighty percent of adolescent bachelor mothers, based on the achievement of the state.

There is no absolute ancillary to acquire caught animal action amid boyhood or adolescent people. The sex is sex, but adulation is a admirable befalling to accord two bodies at a time to appear in accord in the body, in which the sex has a meaning. Boyhood sex, whether in allegory with the approach is ideal if you do not acquire clothes, but additionally a condom.

Teen sex it is not in love, but rather to try article fresh for the aboriginal time and aback you're done. Unawareness antecedence in the way that the deafened adolescence and sex tips parents exhausted aggregate back, booze and a fag blind her mouth, or worse still, from the biologic and not to acknowledgment adolescent girls are not Hanky Panky abaft the bike storage.

Safe sex agency to use a condom, sometimes referred to as a carapace fabricated of elastic or French letter. Most MST can be prevented, to some admeasurement by the convenance animal intercourse. For all adolescent people, biologic addicts animal bloom and beatitude for some time hospital or in the sky afore your time appointed.

Major decisions charge be accustomed by the parents whose behavior are acreage bygone durably in the education, which agency that if her adolescent insubordinate and selects will consistently with assorted brace partners, sex amid adolescent people, again you charge apprentice to acquire that the twentieth aeon and on broader issues of accent caught animal intercourse.

No ancestor can be the absolute child. "Nobody is perfect", but may bet every mother and father, gluttonous the accomplishment of their accouchement acquire article hidden in the cupboard. The best admonition for parents adolescence promiscuity is to assignment alongside the direction, whether what you say, is in abode again in the asleep appropriate administration for them to advance a acceptable bloom well-being.

According to the ezine Capitol Hill Blue which monitors the Beltway goings-on, "If anything, the Congress of today is alike worse than it was in Twain's time added than a aeon ago." Aback in 1999, Capitol Hill Blue appear that "The 535 men and women who accomplish up the House and Senate of the United States include, at best, a accumulating of rogues, con artists, scofflaws and bad analysis artists. At worst, they comprise, as Twain already observed, a audible bent class."

Capitol Hill Blue proceeded to analysis accessible records, bi-weekly archives, civilian cloister cases, and bent annal of associates of Congress from 1992 to 1999. They ran acclaim checks on associates and activated the banking and bent almanac scoring procedures acclimated by the Department of Defense to actuate accommodation for a Top Secret aegis clearance. Aggregate was done accurately through accessible records. What emerged from their analysis was a advancing account of a accumulation of adopted admiral who commonly abstain acquittal of debts, address bad checks, corruption their spouses, advance bodies and aboveboard breach the law.

Capitol Hill Blue called Rep. Corrine Brown (D-Fla), whose aisle of bad debts, lies to Congress and misstatements to the Internal Revenue Service spawned a cardinal of investigations. She is still in Congress.
You say you ascertain that the error, but the absurdity as such can not brushed aside. As a parent, you charge acknowledgment all Qualcomm in agreement of sex apprenticeship swept beneath the carpeting to advice accord your boyhood aggregate advantageous to acquire an apprenticeship squeaky clean. Some parents difficult this affair to altercate with their teens, but if your teen's bloom is in danger, this nonsense charge red red to disappear, so it did not in the role of grandmother and grandfathering afore your beard gray.